I suspected about the server's PCI bus capabilities, so i replaced the poweredge r300 with a poweredge r710, installed the MHQH19-XTC into the x16 pci slot.....
I runned some tests off esxi, so i installed on each server fedora 20, i run the iperf test and this is the results......
[ ID] Interval | Transfer | Bandwidth |
[ 3] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.58 GBytes 740 Mbits/sec
[ 4] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.68 GBytes 768 Mbits/sec
[ 5] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.51 GBytes 719 Mbits/sec
[ 6] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.70 GBytes 773 Mbits/sec
[ 8] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.68 GBytes 768 Mbits/sec
[ 10] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.77 GBytes 792 Mbits/sec
[ 7] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.60 GBytes 745 Mbits/sec
[ 9] 0.0-30.0 sec 2.48 GBytes 711 Mbits/sec
[SUM] 0.0-30.0 sec 21.0 GBytes 6.02 Gbits/sec
About the cables im using CINCH - QSPF+ (exactly this: